說再見 － 音樂治療師之感想 The Healthy "Goodbye" - The Reflection of the Music Therapist
說再見 － 音樂治療師之感想
The Healthy "Goodbye" - The Reflection of the Music Therapist
又是跟小朋友說再見日子。雖然我的治療客戶一半也是成人，但多年來也治療了數不盡的兒童心理個案，孩子在治療完結說再見時也各有不同。
這天又到跟這可愛的B 女說再見。孩子來的時候對說話有一點的心理障礙。在要說再見時B女送我一堆她喜歡的玩具。她使用了言語及行動正面處理分離，表達情感，我也不能不收下
。謝謝孩子對我的愛，給予寶貴的關係及信任，也感謝家長之合作及委以重任
。
我第一個兒童音樂心理治療個案為一個患有蒙古症的英國小孩。他母親幫我們拍下的合照在我2008年回港執業時和我一起回港。那時我已決定把這珍貴的照片放於書桌電腦旁，和這小孩的「再見」轉化為對自己今後作治療師的提醒：在治療經驗増加之時也勿忘珍惜每位音樂治療參加者向我開啟的心門。慶幸能成為你們的治療師，在音樂空間伴你成長
。
It's time to say "Goodbye"! Music Psychotherapy serve both adults and children. I cannot recount the number of children I had treated. Every child say goodbye to their beloved Music Space in very different ways.
Today it's time to say Goodbye to a precious little girl again. Little girl searched her bag and gave me a lot of her toys as presents. Although it is not a usual practice to receive gifts from clients, I acknowledge my little girl's unique way of dealing with separation and her healthy way of expressing her feelings through words and deeds. Thank you for your love for me. Thank you for the trust you put in me and for letting me into your world. I am grateful for the trust parents had put in me and for their cooperations in the therapy process.
My first children Music Psychotherapy client is a boy with Down syndrome. His mom took pictures of us near the end of the therapy. By the time I came back to Hong Kong to start my practice practice in 2008, I decided to bring this precious photo with me and keep it on my desk. My 'goodbye' with this precious child had turned to a reminder serving my therapeutic practice even since. As my experience as a Music Therapist grew over time, my relationship with him reminds me that I must continue to treasure every individual who come into my life through my Music Therapy practice, who open up their hearts to me. I feel blessed to be your Therapist and be able to witness you growing up in the Music Space!
Your therapist,
Emma Mak
Director of the Hong Kong Music Therapy Centre
香港音樂治療中心總監 麥依汶
By Emma Mak
Director of the Hong Kong Music Therapy Centre
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有關 「音樂空間」
